Attitude on an external factor ?
Monday, January 02, 2006
Does attitude depends on something external and its not imbibed internally ? and can attitude be learnt and forgotten on will ? or attitude is something in born in you ?
The answers for these questions lie within. Attitude is how you take things that come your way and Character is how you react to those things. Attitude is how you perceive and character is how you answer. So the perception for the challenge posed lets you answer by your character. So how does attitude gets shaped. Attitude is something that's being tamed and polished by your upbringing. The environment one was brought up in, the friends one makes up in the years of formation plays a huge role in shaping one's attitude. But attitude is not completely unchangeable. The years of formation are important but not the only deciding factor in one's attitude. The most important point is to realize what he really is and by sincere efforts and perseverance one can change his attitude by forcing himself to see both side of things. Basically in an argument, most of the times both sides are right and it's just the way one sees it makes the difference. For example you see a person in the front and say, hey he has a nose , two brown eyes and a one shitty mouth and some other person sees at his back and say, he just has some kinda black hair , a neck and a.., ya you're rite, a BACK. So both of you see the same person but the only difference is you see the different sides and most times the argument is he is not the same person as the other person sees. But the truth is, both are same and its just the way you perceive is different. So coming to our point of Attitude and perception and changing attitude on will. One should understand or have the ability to understand all sides of the argument and come to the most plausible conclusion. So for a better or the right attitude one should first develop the ability to see all sides of the issue and if one has it, then he can change his attitude on will and most of all have the right attitude.
As someone said, The Best way to handle a problem is to solve it.
cheers
kane
The answers for these questions lie within. Attitude is how you take things that come your way and Character is how you react to those things. Attitude is how you perceive and character is how you answer. So the perception for the challenge posed lets you answer by your character. So how does attitude gets shaped. Attitude is something that's being tamed and polished by your upbringing. The environment one was brought up in, the friends one makes up in the years of formation plays a huge role in shaping one's attitude. But attitude is not completely unchangeable. The years of formation are important but not the only deciding factor in one's attitude. The most important point is to realize what he really is and by sincere efforts and perseverance one can change his attitude by forcing himself to see both side of things. Basically in an argument, most of the times both sides are right and it's just the way one sees it makes the difference. For example you see a person in the front and say, hey he has a nose , two brown eyes and a one shitty mouth and some other person sees at his back and say, he just has some kinda black hair , a neck and a.., ya you're rite, a BACK. So both of you see the same person but the only difference is you see the different sides and most times the argument is he is not the same person as the other person sees. But the truth is, both are same and its just the way you perceive is different. So coming to our point of Attitude and perception and changing attitude on will. One should understand or have the ability to understand all sides of the argument and come to the most plausible conclusion. So for a better or the right attitude one should first develop the ability to see all sides of the issue and if one has it, then he can change his attitude on will and most of all have the right attitude.
As someone said, The Best way to handle a problem is to solve it.
cheers
kane
Posted byPraveen J at 8:21 AM
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